How words not chosen carefully before said, it can lead to hurt the people who you care. The moments when you feel you want to ask for advices or merely to talk with someone, you feel even worst than before.
As one word can already put you to the ground, you relentlessly try to go back up your feet. But the pressure keeps you pin down.
The discouraged.
For everyone, we all have our moments when we feel our day is turning against us. Hence, we go and look for a lending hand to reach for a better day ahead of us. Thanks to that person.
Any problems in our lives can really put a beating emotionally. Not seen with the naked eye. You would think the he/she is alright. But you are wrong.
How we look for warmth from others can end up in a let down. The truth hurts, yes! I get that, but why does it have to be rub all over my face so many times? Why mention it not once, but many times?! Why doesn't that person understand?
Even how a person starts talking to you may end up hurting you instead. When their intention is to help you out?
To put it this way, when we see people are feeling down, you would want to be there if you could help that person out. But what good does it make if you are making it worst?
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
If you are there, it would probably be best to by their side and listen.
Words not chosen without thought can truly hurt someone. We all would feel down because our colleagues, friends or family have a high expectations in our accomplishments in life.
If you are to ask me, I know someone doesn't appreciate with my decisions. As I continuously beaten to the ground emotionally. But I have no power to go against that person. Or do I?
For "you" the discouraged one, don't let them push "you" as they like. We have the decisions to change that. If your determination is strong, "you" can pull it through it somehow.
As "you" can finally reach for what "you" are aiming for. Have "you" found it?
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