Thursday, March 10, 2011

Regrets

Here I am thinking what have we done in our lives we could have regret.
Surely, there are many things you can think of that pops out of your head right now.

For instance,
Why did I choose to go study overseas? Instead of studying locally here.

Simple enough: I can't deny what my parents say which is right and best for me.

Regret:
After my studies. Unemployed, seeking for jobs.

Of course, there is more to that, but I'd rather not say.

Now, for whatever you have done which you thought would have been the best solution or actions taken in that very moment. Have "you" regret it?

It's better to know the outcome given the fact how much effort you have put into it. Or have you over thought of yourself from doing it?

From your point of view, it may seem "so-so" but what about the other person? What does that "person" thinks? What is his/her point of view in that matter?

Does it help keeping it in yourself thinking "SUCCESS!" or "FAILURE!" for the rest of your life?
There are different form of regret which is unimaginable and yet obviously it can start a chain of reactions. From a personality change to a global disaster. (World War 2?)

Nevertheless, regret is undeniably an experience in your daily life that goes in a cycle. An old 'regret' and new 'regret' comes along.
Thinking of rewinding back to the past. Changing the way who you are now. For whatever your past was, it has brought you here. Sitting here in front of your screen. Reading this.

So, from all those regrets, would "you" accept them and move on? Or stay where "you" are?

5 comments:

Zaza said...

I have lots of regrets, most of them to do with my career choice, but I try not to think too much about how my life could have been if I had chosen the path I wanted to take. Instead, I'd like to think of these choices as detours, and that in the end, I'll reach my intended destination.

kiddai said...

Thanks for the first proper comment in this blog. =)

Its true we may have our regrets in career choice. Fortunately, you have a positive mind which could lead you to the chosen path you are aiming for.

So good luck!

Zaza said...

Thank you Doctor Hazim :D

Queenie said...

Lol.. 1st proper comment. hahaa.. Za, ur intended destination?? Is it sumtg to do with the 'art'?? oh well...

kiddai said...

Opportunity comes and go. We might miss our chances like in our desired careers. But without effort, how can we be granted for what we truly desire?

As those who put an effort will be gifted. An award which shows you have accomplished through the path of challenges you had to faced.

So keep it up!